It is only now that I ventured anywhere else than the saves subforum lol

but let me put my 2 cents because I've got a mixed reception too.
First and foremost, this may be an unpopular opinion, but for the love of God, since I bought the console in February, I cannot get used to the shape of the DualSense. I like the fact that it feels more robust, akin to an X360 controller, but it has this uncomfortable burliness about it that doesn't seem to work with my small hands.
I appreciate the haptic feedback, but I'm afraid that it'll end up the same as the touchpad on DS4 - only Sony devs will put a real effort into solid implementation. Adaptive triggers are really cool, but I think that the plastic gears will wear out, shortening the lifespan of the gamepad. Is it cool overall - sure, is it some sort of mindblowing experience that will change how we play games - nope.
When my friends and work colleagues ask me if it's worth buying a ps5 now - my response is: it depends. Personally I don't have a gaming PC, and this was a deciding factor for me to replace my ps4. I know that this is kinda textbook fomo, but I didnt like that fact that next gen is happening and I was stuck with my jet engine ps4. But if someone has a dacent gaming PC they can experience 'next gen' right away, don't have to wait for the next big Sony title.
Pros (my personal opinions)
- Computing horsepower, including loading times
- The handful of available TRULY next gen games (Returnal is so far my game of the year, just amazing)
- Minimal noise
- Snappy UI in 4k and HDR
- 3D audio
- 4k blu-ray player
- The design - I hated it after the inital reveal, but it grew on me a lot
Cons:
- UI layout is just bad, horizontal trophy list, no access to media gallery except when you make a screen shot, I don't use the bottom menu bar AT ALL
- Coil whine - while I don't really get any fan noise, the power unit tends to buzz from time to time
- NO USB FILE TRANSFER - like, what??? And I don't mean just for cheats, but having to pay to back up your saves that will be available only online? Absolutely ridiculous.
- Lack of MUST PLAY mainstream blockbuster titles - by this I mean that for me - next gen isn't just prettier graphics and better framerate like what we have now with Demon's Souls or Returnal (although much appreciated), the kind of computing power that Sony boasts should allow for a revolutionary, transformative game experiences and design (like Ratched & Clank portal jumping for example), but I guess those games will come as we get further into the current gen
- Sony's questionable business decisions - on cross-play, PS now still unavailable in many regions, "we believe in generations" only in corporate speeches etc.